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| THE GIRL WITH THE SPINE TATTOO |
Out of billions of people in the world...only one hundred in the world are supermodels which makes them genetic walking freak shows. Marilyn Monroe has been without doubt the hottest and sexiest female icon of all times, and she was a size twelve. So how come now everyone has to look and be a size ZERO nowadays? Shouldnt you and I be able to be happy being ourselves without having to conform to these stereotypes?
As part of my thesis PhD in Public Health through Walden University which deals mainly with pornography and the married couple I decided to go into dating websites to find out what works and what does not work when you are trying to attract a male. On most dating sites when building a profile man or woman have to fill out information about their preferences for example, dating, short-term, friends, long-term, marriage (normally those are fake profiles).
Men are visual, we already know that, it is in their nature...and ladies if you have tried to change your boyfriend's habit of not looking when a girl passes him by I want you to know that will be enduring a loosing battle against instict. Men cannot help but look..they are always searching for the best next thing ...and now temptation is everywhere from the living room to the cell phone with one click...tindr, snapchat, facebook, wildbuddies, etc..you are not competing anymore with the girl next door..in the flesh now.you are competing against men's fantasies...the women that they cannot have...the one that looks more alluring on a snapchat.pic. and that randomly sends them parts of their hmm ...female anatomy...let me throw up a little there..opps.
Men in general (there are some decent ones out there and you know who you are) are not interested in a woman that is insecure...or that is asking him every day about defining their relationship...or questions them when they want to go out with their buddies...men dont need another mommy...! THIS IS A HUGE TURN OFF! SO STOP DOING THAT! BE A CUAO!
Questioning and Comparing...they hate that! If you are nagging him every day about why you didnt pick up this time the kids on time..or clean the dishes ....or forgot that was her birthday..yes you are competing against the girl with the spine tattoo.
Men in general (there are some decent ones out there and you know who you are) are not interested in a woman that is insecure...or that is asking him every day about defining their relationship...or questions them when they want to go out with their buddies...men dont need another mommy...! THIS IS A HUGE TURN OFF! SO STOP DOING THAT! BE A CUAO!
Questioning and Comparing...they hate that! If you are nagging him every day about why you didnt pick up this time the kids on time..or clean the dishes ....or forgot that was her birthday..yes you are competing against the girl with the spine tattoo.
Men are less empathetic than women, perhaps in part because they have less sensitive mirror neurons than women do. But men's mirror neurons aren't completely lacking, as evidenced by brain scans that have been done while men watch pornography. In 2008, French researchers had men watch adult films while they were undergoing an fMRI brain scan. The researchers found that the part of the brain that displays mirror neuron activity lit up before the subjects got erections, which may indicate the great power porn has on the human brain -- it persuades mirror neurons to think that sex is actually occurring, which stimulates a physical response [sources: Motluk, Lehrer].
Mirror neurons aren't the only part of the brain that is involved when a man watches pornography. Actresses in adult films tend to be, shall we say, curvaceous. Researchers have found that the sight of a woman with an hourglass shape, be it in the movies or in the local bar, activates the same reward centers in the brain that are associated with drugs and alcohol [source: Choi]. Seeing photographs of the same woman, minus the distinct waist-to-hip ratio, didn't activate those reward centers. From an evolutionary standpoint, men may still subconsciously associate shapely hips with fertility, thus finding women with hourglass shapes preferable for mating. So if your boyfriend won't stop checking out that Beyoncé lookalike, bear in mind that never looking at another woman would be like an addict going without his fix.
But if he looks, does that mean he'll stray? Not necessarily.
I decided to conduct a little experiment in the last two weeks in which unsuspected male profile holders from several websites (pof, okcupid, zooks) saw the image above as part of a made up profile. My name was Chloe I even had a facebook fake profile in which in less than two hours i obtained more than 250 male and female friends that accepted my request even though they had never met me in the flesh. Scary huh?
I was supposedly a lingerie model and actress that studied at a great local University (beauty and brains) and I was from Texas. Now on the first pic that I posted on the profile was the one below with my face...This pic is from a month ago.Look Below. Okay, anyone could say that my pic does not look like it could go with the body of a lingerie model right...? I thought so too, but the results were amazing.
Second, I included a picture of someone elses' full body from behind (man supposed to be attracted to the hourglass figure) shape of a woman's body mostly by genetics. I told them that was from a year ago and that I had it professionally done. My chats went up through the roof from 67% in which males wanted a long term relationship to almost a whooping 97%. Wow! Sex does sell! I actually could remember when my butt looked like that...good times!!! ANYHOW...MOVING ON!!
Okay anyone with some brains can tell right away...that the second pic above might be fake but something happened in the male brain...they put the two pics together..now I was not so much a 44-year old that wanted a long term relationship..but...their fantasize the the whole body image.
All of the sudden, the texts were different in content..At first, their interest was then focused mainly on them...by that I mean...them finding information about me which will be similar to the questions:
Okay anyone with some brains can tell right away...that the second pic above might be fake but something happened in the male brain...they put the two pics together..now I was not so much a 44-year old that wanted a long term relationship..but...their fantasize the the whole body image.
All of the sudden, the texts were different in content..At first, their interest was then focused mainly on them...by that I mean...them finding information about me which will be similar to the questions:
Where are you from? How many kids do you have? How long you been on the site? What is your profession? Now most women when they are asked these questions might think something of the sort like: What a nice guy..he really wants to establish contact with me and learn about me. Nothing farther from the truth chickies, in my opinion and I am being a bit cynic here..they go through the same repertoire a thousand times with other females because it seems is the norm in a dating site...and then they stop texting or make an excuse...which meants they move into another profile for another day or two until someone of their STANDARDS catches their eye...by these standards I mean...many different things...Now ,then it was my time to try phase 2: HOW TO REEL THEM IN!
After seeing the hourglass figure their questions went something like this: So do you own a bikini? What are you doing tonight? The nicest ones said: Wow, you are beautiful but what a body do you work out much? and other more adult conversation themes....
After seeing the hourglass figure their questions went something like this: So do you own a bikini? What are you doing tonight? The nicest ones said: Wow, you are beautiful but what a body do you work out much? and other more adult conversation themes....
Now I did discovered that most men prefer women with long hair versus short hair (even though they will not say that to you) and that after being for a while in a dating site jumping from woman to woman they knew that some pics were fake or from long time ago..so they always wanted a full body pic..so i decided to turn on the heat..part of the experiment...and sent them this: THE GIRL IN THE SPINE TATOO. Now you are thinking this looks fake...I would say that too..who is going to believe this..really? Well...good news for me...most of them did and then something happened...the ones that stopped texting they started again...and yes I used a fake number!
Not only they were freely giving me information but pics started to appear...some nice ...some horrifically graphic and disturbing....the less that I texted back..the more pics they sent..as a matter of fact I didnt even have to have a conversation after sending the last pic...which meant that most men only look at the pics on the profiles and not their content...THE LESS THAT YOU NEED THEM THE MORE THEY THINK THAT YOU ARE A HOT ITEM!!
Men are visual and that is that..Well, point one proven. My main point here was that your perception of your couple is in your psyque first and then in your heart..sometimes your heart will affect your head, but that certainly for men is all about genetics..men love long and silky hair (shiny) in women because it tends to show FERTILITY. Okay, so you are thinking that these guys on the site only want one thing...I found out...obviously there are women and men that want only that..and go to those sites to find a one night stand. How to get a winner here for a long term relationship? If a man is interested in a real relationship with you...after seeing your face selfie, or full dressed body pic..and continues to talk with you he is possibly a keeper. A man that is asking about naked pics...not worth it...okay Sherlock you probably know that one.
In my opinion, the image of women in general has gone from saint and mother to hoe in ten seconds flat. The commercialization and explotation of the female body affects everyone. We as women let it happen and we fell prey to it..My boyfriend likes DD's i will certainly go to the surgical center and get me those..so he will never leave me!!! My husband was looking at a girl that was a size 5 i will kill and starved myself until I get to that size after having 3 kids....and themes like that...isnt that sad?
We all do it and we all think that at one point or another. However I had beautiful sexy women tell me that after they did all that their husbands or boyfriends left them anyways.
Once in a while you find that man that is tired of playing games and appreciates your beauty for who you are, not the man that shows you pics of a 24 year old friend from California-look she is a fitness instructor-he says, and she is 24. Inside of my head: -fuck you ashole!!! Guess what lets see that 24 year old working 5 jobs and pushing a 10 pound baby through her vagege..while cooking for 7 kids..and doing your laundry!!! Scream girls!!! I really want to punch someone right now..makes me so mad...YOU KNOW WHAT IDIOT I WAS THAT FITNESS INTRUCTOR 10 YEARS AGO!!! KARMA IS A BITCH and it is coming for her too!!! -evil laugh inserted here....and scene!!!
Calm down Mystique..calm down...yes no one out there can make you feel undesirable or unwanted if you dont let them...we all have heard that...but hell they sure do try...now chickies I hope you catch the man of your dreams and I hope that he appreciates you for both your inner and outer beauty...this chickie still trying..to find A GOOD EEGGGG....feeling lonely...but beautiful inside and out!!!
LOVE MYSTIQUE!!
Men are visual and that is that..Well, point one proven. My main point here was that your perception of your couple is in your psyque first and then in your heart..sometimes your heart will affect your head, but that certainly for men is all about genetics..men love long and silky hair (shiny) in women because it tends to show FERTILITY. Okay, so you are thinking that these guys on the site only want one thing...I found out...obviously there are women and men that want only that..and go to those sites to find a one night stand. How to get a winner here for a long term relationship? If a man is interested in a real relationship with you...after seeing your face selfie, or full dressed body pic..and continues to talk with you he is possibly a keeper. A man that is asking about naked pics...not worth it...okay Sherlock you probably know that one.
In my opinion, the image of women in general has gone from saint and mother to hoe in ten seconds flat. The commercialization and explotation of the female body affects everyone. We as women let it happen and we fell prey to it..My boyfriend likes DD's i will certainly go to the surgical center and get me those..so he will never leave me!!! My husband was looking at a girl that was a size 5 i will kill and starved myself until I get to that size after having 3 kids....and themes like that...isnt that sad?
We all do it and we all think that at one point or another. However I had beautiful sexy women tell me that after they did all that their husbands or boyfriends left them anyways.
Once in a while you find that man that is tired of playing games and appreciates your beauty for who you are, not the man that shows you pics of a 24 year old friend from California-look she is a fitness instructor-he says, and she is 24. Inside of my head: -fuck you ashole!!! Guess what lets see that 24 year old working 5 jobs and pushing a 10 pound baby through her vagege..while cooking for 7 kids..and doing your laundry!!! Scream girls!!! I really want to punch someone right now..makes me so mad...YOU KNOW WHAT IDIOT I WAS THAT FITNESS INTRUCTOR 10 YEARS AGO!!! KARMA IS A BITCH and it is coming for her too!!! -evil laugh inserted here....and scene!!!
Calm down Mystique..calm down...yes no one out there can make you feel undesirable or unwanted if you dont let them...we all have heard that...but hell they sure do try...now chickies I hope you catch the man of your dreams and I hope that he appreciates you for both your inner and outer beauty...this chickie still trying..to find A GOOD EEGGGG....feeling lonely...but beautiful inside and out!!!
LOVE MYSTIQUE!!
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